Sibling Love

I admit to being a little behind the times when it comes to the question of marriage equality. I have seen the light, however, and have changed my mind. I now support marriage equality for all. What changed my was this story I read from the Atlanta affiliate of CBS News, which got me to thinking about the matter.

An Effingham County brother and sister were arrested after allegedly having sex inside a tractor trailer parked in a church parking lot, according to the Savannah Morning News.

Deputies were investigating reports of a prowler about 4:30 a.m. Tuesday when they found Christopher Buckner, 20, and Timothy Savoy, 25, walking near the Countryside Baptist Church in Guyton. According to the report, the deputies determined the pair were siblings and had just had sex.

They later admitted to having sex in the semi three times after watching the movie “The Notebook,” a Sheriff’s Office spokesman said.

Both were charged with incest, aggravated sodomy, and prowling. Buckner was released on $9,000 bond while Savoy remained in the Effingham County jail on $13,400 bond, according to booking documents.

Why is their relationship a crime? These are two consenting adults who obviously feel a great attraction for one another. Why shouldn’t they be allowed top have sex, even though they are brother and sister? Why shouldn’t they be able to get married, if they so desire? If two men or two women can be married, why not two brothers or two sisters? Why not a brother and a sister? I want to be the first to demand marriage equality for incestuous couples.

I am not really serious, of course, except that in a way, I am. If marriage can be arbitrarily redefined to include same sex couples, regardless of tradition or of any consideration of the actual purpose of marriage, why can’t it be redefined to include incestuous couples? Why can’t polygamy be permitted? There is actual precedent for polygamy. Why should marriage be confined to human beings? Perhaps I should demand marriage equality for cross-species relationships. I cannot think of a single reason why any of the circumstances that listed shouldn’t be permitted, if any imaginable relationship could be defined as a “marriage” and if what the left considers to be “fairness” and “equality: are the only considerations

But what if they are not? What if there are, in fact, good reasons to define marriage as a relationship between a man and a woman? What if the people opposed to redefining marriage are not simply motivated by blind hatred and bigotry as the progressive haters and bigots would prefer to believe?

The purpose of marriage is to create and preserve families. Because human beings are not hermaphrodites but are divided into two genders, male and female, in order to conceive, it is necessary for one of each gender to have intercourse. No act of homosexual intercourse can possibly result in the creation of a new life. Because male and female have differing roles in the process, male and female are built differently, both physiologically and psychologically. The two sexes are equal in legal and social terms, but they are not interchangeable. A man cannot bear children. A woman cannot conceive children. Mothers and fathers play different and complementary roles in child rearing and in the marriage generally. Marriage, by definition, must include at least one of each gender. In the West, marriage has always been considered to be between one man and one woman. This is what makes marriage different from every other relationship that human beings engage in, the fact that marriage must include both genders. Two men or two woman can have many kinds of relationships, as friends or lovers, but they cannot be married. To redefine marriage to include same-sex couples takes away the characteristic that makes marriage, well, marriage. If you expand the definition of marriage to include same-sex couples, you are essentially defining away  the concept of marriage altogether.

Of course making the simple observation that same-sex marriage cannot really be a marriage at all is now a thought crime and I suppose that I will be denounced as a hater and a homophobe. So be it. Calling me names will not change what is true.

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